Happy New Year! I’m kicking off 2022 by watching and reviewing a bunch of movies from 2021.
Title: Together Together
Release Date: April 23, 2021
Director: Nikole Beckwith
Production Company: Wild Idea | Stay Gold Features | Haven Entertainment | Kindred Spirit
Matt (Ed Helms) is single and in his mid-40s and very much wants to be a father. He chooses Anna (Patti Harrison) to the be the surrogate to carry his baby to term. The movie explores the 9 months of pregnancy for these two characters as they go to doctor’s checkups, therapy sessions, and getting to know one another better. They form a friendship but also learn where to set boundaries in their relationship.
A lot of the humor in this movie relies on the awkwardness of their situation and moments that make you just cringe. At times I hated this movie, and found Helms’ character particularly insufferable. But I ultimately also found it insightful and rather touching. It’s a strange movie that feels honest and human beneath a layer of artifice. So I guess I’m right in the middle on how I feel about this movie.
Release Date: May 15, 2020
Director: Dan Sallitt
Production Company: Static Productions
I watched Fourteen through a virtual screening for the Brattle Theatre, in Cambridge, MA. The movie focuses on two women in their twenties who have been friends since junior high school and retain that friendship as they set out on their individual life paths in Brooklyn. Mara (Tallie Medel) is a quietly competent and driven type working as a teacher’s assistant, studying for a graduate degree, and writing a novel in her spare time. Jo (Norma Kuhling) appears more relaxed, has an acerbic wit, and works as social worker. It becomes clear early on that Mara is a caretaker, doing things like making sure that Jo isn’t chronically late for work, while Jo makes Mara push her own boundaries.
The movie is impressionist in style, showing short scenes of the two women alone and together over a decade or so. They cycle through boyfriends, jobs, and apartments with some cathartic moments thrown into the mundanity of everyday life. Over time, the two women grow apart albeit with no great precipitating event although the challenges to their relationship are evident from the start. Jo also begins a downward spiral into depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.
Fourteen is a very honest and realistic depiction of life and relationships done with excellent writing, direction, editing, and acting.
Author: Benjamin Alire Sáenz
Title: Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe
Narrator: Lin-Manuel Miranda
Publication Info: New York, NY : Simon & Schuster Audio, p2013.
Sáenz has written a beautiful novel about friendship, family, love, coming of age, and coming to terms with your identity as a teenager. Set in El Paso in the mid-1980s, the book is narrated by 15-year-old Mexican American boy Aristotle – or Ari – who has learned to repress his feelings from his parents. His father won’t speak of the horrors of fighting in the Vietnam War and neither of his parents will talk about Ari’s much older brother who is in prison. The story begins when Ari meets and befriends Dante, another Mexican American boy his age, at the swimming pool. Dante and his family are more open in their feelings and he draws out Ari over a series of meaningful conversations. The two boys deal with the typical trials of teenagers as well the specific problems related to understanding their identity as Mexican Americans and masculinity. They suffer injuries when hit by a car, are separated when Dante’s family goes to Chicago for a year, and explore their sexuality. Without giving too much of the plot away, this is an absolutely beautiful book and one that I think a lot of young people (and formerly young people) can identify with. As an added bonus, Lin-Manuel’s expressive voice is absolutely perfect for the audiobook narration.
He didn’t say anything. And then I heard him crying. So I just let him cry. There was nothing I could do. Except listen to his pain. I could do that. I could hardly stand it. But I could do that. Just listen to his pain.
Recommended books: George by Alex Gino, The Sun is Also a Star by Nicola Yoon, and Eleanor & Park by Rainbow Rowell